Whether you’re putting on a conference, organising a stag or hen do for the ages, or are looking for that perfect wedding venue – planning your big day can be a big task. Castles and stately homes can be an ideal venue for large or more intimate parties and events. With that in mind, we have some tips and ideas for planning and organising that will transform your celebrations into something extraordinary and make managing the event a breeze.

Planning Your Event


Whether you have specifics in mind or need some inspiration and ideas to take your event to the next level, the first step is to put your ideas or creative vision in one place.

Gather your ideas

You will have seen those impressive wedding magazine spreads with collages and notes on all manner of attire and décor. While this is helpful, you don’t need to get too fancy. Think about events you’ve attended in the past, ideas for a unifying theme, and any small touches you’d like to add, and see how your ideas begin to build.

Consider your budget

Before you get too carried away, it is worth doing some research on typical costs for key areas: venue hire, catering, entertainment, and – of course – drinks. How many people are you expecting, and what is your cost per head? With these costs in mind, you can divide up your budget and look at what will be possible.

Make a list

Once you are clear on what you want and what can be achieved within budget, it’s time to make a checklist. Be clear on details. Some questions you can ask yourself are: What is the task? When does it need to be completed? Who is responsible for this item? This is a simple and easy way to keep on top of everything and make sure that you are organised for the day.

Meadow Manor, Norfolk - UK Party Houses to Rent - Oliver's Travels

Meadow Manor, Norfolk -Oliver’s Travels


What are the main features of your party? Selecting a suitable venue can take time, but 2 things are key: size and location. Look for a venue that will accommodate everyone without leaving a conspicuous empty space or your guests scattered. Whether this will be a stately home or local hall, consider the location in terms of transport, too.

If you’re planning a wedding, consider finding a venue that can be licensed for the wedding as well as the reception. This can be a great way to save and to keep track of your guests, making it easier to organise transport and your next ports of call…


Catering is typically charged on a cost per head basis. Knowing your budget will make this process simpler and your options clear.

Consider your costs and what kind of food will be suitable for your type of event. Is your event an all-day event that requires a meal, an evening party that would benefit from light refreshments, or somewhere in between? Depending on how formal your event will be, consider whether a sit-down meal is appropriate. Will a buffet might make things easier, or is a table of light finger food is all you will need?

It is also helpful to consider the space your venue provides. Can food be cooked on site or will you need to hire outside caterers? Food, catering and bar equipment can all be hired by mobile caterers.


Caterers or wedding venues usually provide a limited selection of drinks. Table wine can be included in a package, or you can supply your own wine and negotiate a corkage cost.

Your venue may have an existing bar, so check this out in advance. Whether you plan to provide free drinks or are installing a cash bar, consider comparing the venue’s bar prices with a mobile bar.

If you find that the venue’s provisions do not meet your plans or requirements, a mobile bar is a great way to cater to your guests’ varied drinks tastes. Many mobile bars provide a package price, making it simple to track your spending and stick to budget.


Keeping your guests well fed with a well-stocked bar is half the battle, but how do you keep them entertained?

Again, it is important to consider the venue. Is there room for a DJ or string quartet, or does it have a great sound system for background music to be played from an MP3 player?  Whatever you are planning, consider the space and equipment the venue provides. What type of entertainment will match the tone of your event, and what does your budget allow?

Atmosphere and Intangibles

Making all of these elements work together is key to a successful event. Remember that catering can contribute to entertainment, and that a cocktail bar could provide a unique atmosphere to enhance, or even take the place of, live entertainment.

Consider these points carefully and with a little creativity and good luck you can have a fun and memorable event to enjoy and remember.

About the Author:

With over 10 years’ experience in the events industry, Oliver Bennett has seen it all from working for brands such as Gatecrasher to running successful bars and now operating mobile bar and events management consultancy, Bar4hire.com. Specialising in unconventional venues, Ollie’s team are experienced and knowledgeable in managing everything  from weddings to corporate events.

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30 Responses

  1. Wendy Kelk

    This is a really useful guide to organising a private event, especially as so many people forget about details such as separate caterers and drink providers!

  2. Markk Owens

    One of the benefits of hiring Outside Catering Hire is that you need not to purchase any utensils as to accommodate the number of guests. …good post !! thanks for sharing !!!

  3. Juan Carlo

    Thank you for the wonderful tips on organizing events. In my opinion the food is most important so hiring a catering service is important to be able to attend to everyones dietary needs if ever there are some exceptions.

  4. Rachel

    Really great tips. For people who have never planned an event before, I think the biggest issues are staying within their budget as they want to add so many things to it and have it at the best venue. They need to prioritize what should be at the top of their list so they stay within their budget.

  5. Tomas Killington

    My wife and I are currently trying to plan a large social gathering. I get pretty stressed about parties and such because I’m not keen to the ways to make a party enjoyable for large amounts of people. I didn’t realize how important it is to determine what kind of food you should serve and then perform a head count to give to the caterer for food preparation. That’s a piece of the puzzle I can now put into place.

  6. Parkside Mansion

    I think location would be one of the first things you should look at when trying to plan an event. Thanks for sharing such great tips on organizing an event.

  7. Oscar O'Malley

    I like that you mentioned that the two key factors when choosing a venue are size and location. My siblings and I are planning a party for our parent’s 50th anniversary, and want to do something big! Finding a great venue that accommodates all of our guests and looks great would be a huge plus.

  8. Bobby Saint

    I like that you provided tips on how to organize an event such as determining your budget. Even before looking for a possible venue for your event, it’s recommended that you determine first how much you would be willing to spend. This way, you would be able to narrow down your choices and make a well-informed decision. Hence, you wouldn’t have to worry about overspending on something that is totally unnecessary. If I were to organize an event, I would make sure to take this into account. Thanks.

  9. Jhon Smith

    What an article! Worth reading. Is there any information that you left behind? Thank you so much for sharing all the information about organizing an event at a private venue.

  10. Jordan Miner

    I’ve been wanting to help my wife find an event venue for a party she’s planning. I’m glad you talked about looking to your entertainment when you’re considering event venues. I think that picking a venue based on the entertainment would be smart, and help us make sure things go smoothly!

  11. Steve

    Awesome article! I`m also looking into starting work with planning events, and articles like these really do help.

  12. Draftworks

    Hi Oliver,
    Thank you for the Informative post. Useful tips here. Planning is really important when going for a big event.


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